给恒（七）五个月快乐！

给恒（六）平。静

平静的气息，从你小小的鼻孔有节奏地呼出。

亲爱的，但愿你的人生，也如是般安稳。

任世界再动荡，社会再不安，只要你在耶稣温暖的怀里，就没有一丝的惊慌惧怕。

我的小宝贝，安心地睡吧！(￣(I)￣)

爱你，

ლ(╹◡╹ლ) & (✿◖◡​◗)

给哲（三十九）罪根

上学进入第二个星期，你独自下车走入学校，正如我们所预期的。
独立的个体，你是的。
孩子，你真的好棒！上帝把你创造得真的很特别！
就像你在主日学唱的那首歌一样：哦 你是如此如此特别  在上帝的眼中  没有人能取代你........你知道吗？
看着哼着歌儿的你，不禁歌颂起上帝美妙的作为来！

昨天载你放学，发现你闷闷不乐，连最爱的火车也没有第一时间找出来玩。
我心里就知道你在学校一定发生了什么事，听你说了一些有头无尾的，就打电话问了你的老师。果然，是与同学发生了小磨擦后同学哭了（你却不停告诉我同学跌倒哭了）。你或许觉得委屈，或是内疚，是带着这样的情绪离开学校的吧！

孩子，有做不对的就要向朋友道歉say sorry，然后再拉拉手做回好朋友吧！
人与人之间因为个性的差异，背景文化不同，和对彼此的期待也非一致，难免常产生误会和冲突。妈咪也曾经对朋友掏心掏肺，却换来伤痕累累狼狈地离场。后来发现谁也没有错，那是彼此的思想差异所造成的。虽然痛过，裹着伤也还是要回到场里去。

不仅是你，我们都爱单从自己的角度看事情，是‘自我’的罪根。
“你打到我了！”  “我只不过轻轻碰到你！”
“你伤害了我！” “我不觉得这个是伤害！”
这些剧情会不断上演。

唯有谦卑向身边的人学习，多从别人角度去感受，不是光用头脑，而是用你的心。
碰了钉子，再 去爱... 再碰钉子，再学习，再爱....
假以时日，你会明了，爱  就是那么一回事！

就送你这经文：“若 是 能 行 ， 总 要 尽 力 与 众 人 和 睦 。” 罗马书12：18

祝你：享受与同伴友好相处的快乐！

给哲（三十八）。 父子

儿子，昨天发生一件令我们摸不着头的事。你像往常一样，如厕后就大声喊说：妈妈，好了！我要洗屁股！
如常地妈咪就出现你面前要给你清洗，但你却不依，不停重复说：我要爸爸洗屁股！
直到你爸放下弟弟出现在你这臭屁男面前才肯合作。我不禁偷笑，心里暗爽着！

你爸是个务实派的狮子座，一双粗壮的手就是他对爱的诠释。
相较于我和你相处的时间，他可是没办法，也没那样的能耐。
但，他对你的爱 绝不亚于妈咪。


“mm，没有battery?"
"等一下爸爸回来去JJ买battery。”


“mm，oh oh 坏了！”
“等爸爸回来弄。” 


“mm，我要喝100plus”
“等爸爸回来买”

“mm，我要去玩水......”
“等爸爸回来带我去....”
.....


渐渐地，你就知道有些事情只有爸爸才帮得到你。从当初的只依赖我，到现在会常想念你爸，每天挂在嘴里的口头禅就是：等一下爸爸回来！


最爱就是跟爸爸出门修理车，或缠着疲累的他骑牛牛什么地~
昨晚他给你讲了几个圣经故事你还不罢休，唯有向我求救~
看到书本里的风筝，你会提起爸爸带你去放风筝的情形~
每周末你爸都爱带我们到公园去，看着你们的背影微笑是我常做的事~


这些，我都尽量闪避，好让你俩有专属的相处模式。因为，这可是谁也无法替代的关系。

父与子的关系，因为经营而密切，也因为爱而完整。


后记：发展到最近你更是把爸爸捧上天，凡是解决不了的‘大事’一定要等爸爸回来，举凡marker pen没墨水了，钢琴坏了，花死了，鱼跳楼了。。。都会要你的超人老爸变魔术把东西归位方肯罢休。lol!

picture by Xjj, GKJin.

这张照片，超有感觉的。我好喜欢。你呢？

小小羊儿上学记

My boy has finally decided to kick off his schooling life. MM was so tension over the week before sending him to his new school, she keeps pray for him each and every single night. 

MM:"Amos 长大罗，要上学了！学校好好玩哦！有小朋友，有老师，有playground，有ABC，有故事和唱歌.....不要哭，主耶稣和Amos一起，等一下妈妈回来载你哦！" x100times
（重复告诉他，做好心理建设）

Finally, the BIG day had came...

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20120627 @7:30am Amos on his bed:"mm,baby?我要找baby!" (his brother had went out with dd earlier to grandma's house)
Afterwards he is willing to change the school's uniform and brush his teeth after morning prayer. Thank God.

20120627 @8:00am Cheers!! I am going to school today! 

20120627 @8:05am Drink milk in the car 

Praise God for his good mood and good weather today!

20120627 @8:20am In front of his classroom, guiding him where to put his bag and shoes

  

20120627 @8:25am: Hesitate to enter his classroom, nagging until I walked in with him. 

                                He was attracted by the animal carpet on the floor.

20120627 @8:35am Playground time! He just ran around & look for people to play with.

With his classmates! First indian girl is a very friendly and talkative girl, keep leading him to play around; the boy after him is gonna be his 'best friend' in the school! lol!

20120627 @9:00am Toilet & Snack time; refused to sit with his classmates.

20120627 @9:30am Singing time

(pic.1) "elephant..elephant.."

(pic.2) "The more we get together..together..together.."

(pic.3&4) keep checking if mm is still around

(pic.5) enjoy singing...after few songs he walked to me and said :"mm, abc song". Then I asked him to tell teacher he wants to sing ABC song. He really go and tell teacher then they sang it for him. LOL!

20120627 @9:45am Story telling time.

But he refused to sit with friends and listen to the story, just walked around and played, then even sit under the table. But I knew he did listened.

20120627 @10:00am Drawing & Coloring time; and, mm was trying to 'disappear'.

(pic.4&5)I walked out, he din't realise

(Pic.1&2&3)After 10mins come back to check him, he was disturbing his friends ><"

He dint' see me and I walked away again with smiles on my face. 

20120627 @10:30am 

(pic 4) Runs out of class to the toilet with friend, chasing and again din't notice I was just a gate away, shooting photos outside of the gate.

(pic.2) He ran to another class then come back to ask his friend to follow him.

(pic. 3) took his friend's shoes and ask him to put on

(pic. 4) then the teacher came out and his friend quickly ran into his class. LOL!!!

20120627 @11:30am ops! He saw me and I was playing 'now you see, now you no' with him. :p 
(Everytime when he saw these pictures of crying, he laugh loudly for himself!)

20120627 @12:15am Time to say "byebye", we will come back next week!

(Face was black because he said:" I want 'hao hao' to go back with me".  OMG!)

20120627 @12:30am Just to reward him with some fries and hope he ends his first schooling day happily. :) 


Well done son!

* Photos arranged by Stella Goh, his best ever xiao-yi! 

后记：These pics was taken during his orientation day, he was formally started schooling on 2 Jul. He had done very well for his first week, only cried once when I refused to go into the class with him. He wants me to accompany him into his class every morning, then I will wait for 5-10mins until he mingled around with friends. Teacher said he only asked where is mommy, then he will tell teacher "等一下MM 回来". Whenever he saw my car coming into the school's boundary, I can read his lips saying: 妈妈回来了！


My good boy! :) 


Praise the Lord!!!